OK I read and re-read a lot of people’s suggestions and took away with an open mind what I thought were some of most Blondes adult seeking horny sex wants for a date honest and helpful replies to my question. I really appreciate the help everyone and especially the “No Pressure” advice too. I think that very well be the key. If you all remember as had I mentioned in my replies I had already directed her towards the Holistic Medicine’s article concerning female ejaculation that 1 of the respondents posted. It is a very well written and honest assessment. And then didn’t go into to too much detail about it with her other then to say “See I’ve been telling you it’s not pee” and then a little later in the conversation “I really like it – it turns me on” and then left it at that You have to realize when we have conversations of this nature we are usually in bed together and sharing a little mutual message. Every thing is relaxed Then the following day she brought the subject of sexuality up and during the conversation I reinforced it with “Honey – if a can pee out the same hole he cums out of so can a woman”, (I think that 1 hit home) and then again backed off the subject and didn’t pressure her at all Then last night I couldn’t contain myself any further. After an hour of sensual messaging her (watching TV together) she got up and went to shower off a little, so I knew she was in the mood. After a little kissing and fondling I told her “Honey I would like to make you orgasm a little different way” and then proceeded to lay out a towel and instruct her to lay down – belly down on the towel. This didn’t work out so well for her and quickly we switched to her lying face up as this was much more comfortable for her. At this point I switched from using my fingers to message her G-spot and grabbed a small G-spot vibrator of hers she uses for clitty stimulation. Very softly I said to her “Honey its supposed to make you feel like your going to pee if I’m doing it correctly – don’t worry about it”